I spent a lot of time talking about Zacchaeus yesterday, but Luke 19 also contains Jesus' parade into Jerusalem, surrounded by crowds, and his overturning tables in the temple, both of which get him a lot of attention, most of it negative. In chapter 20 various factions, including chief priests, scribes, and Sadducees, question Jesus about his authority, taxes, and the resurrection. Their intent is not to learn from him, but to catch him saying something stupid and humiliate him.
*Sigh*. This is a stressful chapter to read after yet another divisive election in our country. Neighbors no longer trust neighbors. The sides are entrenched. There is so much fear and rage. We have stopped listening to each other. Hope is so scarce in this world. In the disingenuous questions from leaders in the temple, I see such a familiar human tendency: we question not to learn but to attack. We listen not to understand but to respond and rebut. Jesus does not naively assume the best intent of his questioners. He knows exactly what they're up to. But he stays engaged with the conversation anyway. He stays put there in the temple. He tells parables. He answers questions. He asks a few questions himself. He's all done turning over tables. It's time to talk, and let the chips fall where they may.
What I learn from Jesus here is: we can not always know the intentions of others, much less control what they are. But we know our own intentions. And while we still can, while the opportunity to talk exists, we can follow Jesus' example, and speak in good faith with those with whom we disagree. Conversation does not legitimize another person's viewpoint. It only gives us the chance to share our own. It may change nothing. But the fact that we tried again does make a difference. If you can safely do it, and you have the the emotional and spiritual energy to do it in good faith, do it. Do it again. Keep doing it. Jesus did.